Monday, September 13, 2010

A Dog Story

I am a huge animal lover. Especially when it comes to dogs. We have two labs ourselves and if I could take in more dogs I would. One thing that irritates me the most about living here in NC is the careless way people treat their animals. I know within the past few months the no kill shelter's have seen an infulx of animals and many had to stop taking in dogs. However there isn't a day that goes by that I don't see some poor dog dumped along side of the road. I even had a neighbor at our last apartment who didn't want her cat anymore and just left it outside. It saw crying outside our door for a week and she refused to take him back in. We couldn't since M is allergic and the dogs aren't cat lovers but the other neighbors and I took turns feeding it until finally one of them took her in. I just don't understand how people can toss out their animals like garbage.
Last weekend while taking our dogs out our neighbor came outside with his two kids carrying a little black lab. The kids were telling us they had just gotten a new puppy. The guy explained that he rescued him from a kill shelter. That they had his whole liter of pups there and when he got there this was the only guy left. I felt so awful for those other animals.
Sorry to get on a roll here. I know many soldier's have to leave their animal's behind and that sometimes the homes they had planned didn't work out. My mom sent me this email about a soldier and his dog and I wanted to share it with you all.

They told me the big black Lab's name was Reggie,
as I looked at him lying in his pen.. The shelter was
clean, no-kill, and the people really friendly.
I'd only been in the area for six months, but everywhere
I went in the small college town, people were welcoming and open.

Everyone waves when you pass them on the street.

But something was still missing as I attempted to
settle in to my new life here, and I thought a dog
couldn't hurt. Give me someone to talk to.
And I had just seen Reggie's advertisement on the local
news. The shelter said they had received numerous
calls right after, but they said the people who had come
down to see him ju st didn't look like "Lab
people," whatever that meant. They must've thought I did.

But at first, I thought the shelter had misjudged me in giving me Reggie and his things,

which consisted of a dog pad, bag of toys almost all of which were brand new tennis
balls, his dishes, and a sealed letter from his previous owner. See, Reggie and I didn't really hit it off
when we got home. We struggled for two weeks (which is how long the shelter told me to give him to adjust to his new home). Maybe it was the fact that I was trying to adjust, too.

Maybe we were too much alike.

For some reason, his stuff (except for the tennis balls --- he wouldn't go anywhere without two stuffed in
his mouth) got tossed in with all of my other unpacked boxes.

I guess I didn't really think he'd need all his old stuff, that I'd get him new things once he
settled in. But it became pretty clear pretty soon that he wasn't going to.

I tried the normal commands the shelter told me he knew, ones like "sit" and "stay" and
"come" and "heel," and he'd follow them - when he felt like it.

He never really seemed to listen when I called his name --- sure, he'd look in my
direction after the fourth or fifth time I said it, but then he'd just go back to doing whatever.

When I'd ask again, you could almost see him sigh and then grudgingly obey.

This just wasn't going to work. He chewed a couple shoes and some unpacked boxes.

I was a little too stern with him and he resented it, I could tell.
The friction got so bad that I couldn't wait for th e two
weeks to be up, and when it was, I was in full-on search
mode for my cell phone amid all of my unpacked stuff. I
remembered leaving it on the stack of boxes for the guest
room, but I also mumbled, rather cynically, that the
"damn dog probably hid it on me."

Finally I found it, but before I could punch up the
shelter's number, I also found his pad and other toys
from the shelter...I tossed the pad in Reggie's
direction and he snuffed it and wagged, some of the most
enthusiasm I'd seen since bringing him home. But
then I called, "Hey, Reggie, you like that? Come
here and I'll give you a treat." Instead, he sort of glanced in my direction --- maybe "glared"
is more accurate --- and then gave a discontented sigh and flopped down .... with his back to me.

Well, that's not going to do it either, I thought. And I punched the shelter phone number.

But I hung up when I saw the sealed envelope.

I had completely forgotten about that, too.

"Okay, Reggie," I said out loud,

"let's see if your previous owner has any advice."

____________ _________ _________ _________

Whoever Gets My Dog:

Well, I can't say that I'm happy you're reading this, a letter I told the shelter
could only be opened by Reggie's new owner.
I'm not even happy writing it. If you're reading this,

it means I just got back from my last car ride with my Lab

after dropping him off at the shelter.

He knew something was different.

I have packed up his pad and toys before and set them by the back door before a trip,
but this time... it's like he knew something was wrong.

And something is wrong...which is why I have
to go to try to make it right.

So let me tell you about my Lab in the hopes that it

will help you bond with him and he with you.

First, he loves tennis balls.
The more the merrier. Sometimes I think he's part
squirrel, the way he hordes them. He usually always
has two in his mouth, and he tries to get a third in
there. Hasn't done it yet. Doesn't
matter where you throw them, he'll bound after it, so be
careful - really don't do it by any roads. I made
that mistake once, and it almost cost him dearly.

Next, commands. Maybe the shelter staff already told you, but I'll go over them
again: Reggie knows the obvious ones ---
"sit," "stay," "come," "heel."

He knows hand signals:
"back" to turn around and go back when you put
your hand straight up; and "over" if you put your
hand out right or left. "Shake" for shaking
water off, and "paw" for a high-five. He
does "down" when he feels like lying down --- I bet
you could work on that with him some more. He knows
"ball" and "food" and "bone"
and "treat" like nobody's business.

I trained Reggie with small food treats.

Nothing opens his ears like little pieces of hot dog.

Feeding schedule: twice a day, once about seven in the morning, and again at six in
the evening. Regular store-bought stuff; the shelter
has the brand.

He's up on his shots.
Call the clinic on 9th Street and update his info with
yours; they'll make sure to send you reminders for when
he's due. Be forewarned: Reggie hates the vet.

Good luck getting him in the car.

I don't know how he knows when it's time to go to the vet, but he knows.

Finally, give him some time.
I've never been married, so it's only been Reggie
and me for his whole life. He's gone everywhere
with me, so please include him on your daily car rides if
you can. He sits well in the backseat, and he
doesn't bark or complain. He just loves to be
around people, and me most especially.

Which means that this transition is
going to be hard, with him going to live with someone new.

And that's why I need to share
one more bit of info with you....

His name's not Reggie.

I don't know what made me do it, but

when I dropped him off at the shelter, I told them
his name was Reggie.

He's a smart dog, he'll get used to it

and will respond to it, of that I have no
doubt. But I just couldn't bear to give them his
real name. For me to do that, it seemed so final, that
handing him over to the shelter was as good as me admitting
that I'd never see him again. And if I end up
coming back, getting him, and tearing up this letter, it
me ans everything's fine. But if someone else is
reading it, well ... well it means that his new owner should
know his real name. It'll help you bond with
him. Who knows, maybe you'll even notice a change
in his demeanor if he's been giving you problems.

His real name is "Tank".

Because that is what I drive.

Again, if you're reading this
and you're from the area, maybe my name has been on the
news. I told the shelter that they couldn't make
"Reggie" available for adoption until they
received word from my company commander. See, my
parents are gone, I have no siblings, no one I could've
left Tank with ... and it was my only real request of the
Army upon my deployment to Iraq , that they make one phone..
call the shelter ... in the "event" ... to tell
them that Tank could be put up for adoption. Luckily,
my colonel is a dog guy, too, and he knew where my platoon
was headed. He said he'd do it
personally. And if you're reading this, then
he made good on his word.

Well, this letter is getting downright depressing,

even though, frankly, I'm just
writing it for my dog. I couldn't imagine if I was
writing it for a wife and kids and family ... but still,
Tank has been my family for the last six years, almost as
long as the Army has been my family.

And now I hope and pray that you
make him part of your family and that he will adjust and
come to love you the same way he loved me.

That unconditional love from a dog
is what I take with me to Iraq as an inspiration to do
something selfless, to protect innocent people from those
who would do terrible things ... and to keep those terrible
people from coming over here. If I have to give up Tank
in order to do it, I am glad to have done so. He is
my example of service and of love. I hope I honored
him by my service to my country and comrades.

All right, that's enough.
I deploy this evening and have to drop this letter off at
the shelter. I don't think I'll say another
good-bye to Tank, though. I cried too much the first
time. Maybe I'll peek in on him and see if he
finally got that third tennis ball in his mouth.

Good luck with Tank. Give him a good home,

and give him an extra kiss goodnight - every night - from me.

Thank you,

Paul Mallory

____________ _________ _________ _______

I folded the letter and slipped it back in the envelope.

Sure I had heard of Paul Mallory, everyone in town knew him, even
new people like me. Local kid, killed in Iraq a few months ago and posthumously earning the Silver Star

when he gave his life to save three buddies.

Flags had been at half-mast all summer.

I leaned forward in my chair and rested my elbows on my knees, staring at the dog.

"Hey, Tank," I said quietly.

The dog's head whipped up, his ears cocked and his eyes bright.

"C'mere boy."

He was instantly on his feet, his nails clicking on
the hardwood floor. He sat in front of me, his head
tilted, searching for the name he hadn't heard in months.

"Tank," I whispered.

His tail swished.

I kept whispering his name, over and over, and each
time, his ears lowered, his eyes softened, and his posture
relaxed as a wave of contentment just seemed to flood
him. I stroked his ears, rubbed his shoulders, buried
my face into his scruff and hugged him.

"It's me now, Tank, just you and me.
Your old pal gave you to me." Tank reached up and
licked my cheek. "So whatdaya say we play some ball?"

His ears perked again.
"Yeah? Ball? You like that? Ball?"

Tank tore from my hands and disappeared in the next room.

And when he came back, he had three tennis balls in his mouth.


  1. I LOVE THIS POST!!!!! I am a HUGE animal lover and volunteer at shelters, and I love reading stuff like that. I wish everyone had the compassion for animals that you do, the world would be a better place!

  2. What a beautiful post. I cried reading it and I cried reading the letter to my husband. I'm so glad that you found Tank and that Tank found you. I too wish everyone had the same compassion for animals as you do.

  3. Just cried reading your post! What sad yet beautiful story of Tank. I am a huge animal lover too, especially dogs. It just breaks my heart hearing or seeing any animal mistreated or abandoned, makes me wish I could save them all.

  4. Wow, what a story. I have tears streaming down my face. Thanks for sharing it :)

  5. OMG! Two subjects that pull at my heart cried through that whole story. Thanks for sharing it!

  6. Thanks for posting this, I loved it. I cried so hard reading it that I have to laugh at myself now for getting so emotional over something made up. I work at our local shelter and sadly, it isn't anything like this story. We get so many animals from careless military families who don't think about if they can take the animals with them before they leave. Or those who don't even care. I don't understand it, but the people at our base just don't seem to care and treat their pets as temporary. I wish more people were like you, who loved their pets, who would do anything for them. Thanks again for posting.

  7. Oh My goodness! Katie, this was heartbreaking! I can hardly see what I am typing now! Thank you for sharing this story from the email your mom sent. Was this written from someone in her home town? Oh goodness...I can not imagine being Paul Mallory writing that letter nor the new owner having read Paul's letter.

    Blessings & Aloha!

  8. OMGosh....I read this post while I was waiting on Fox to get snipped this morning. My eyes were filled with tears! I can NOT believe this story! It really touched my heart. To have adopted a sweet dog, and then to find out that he is a Fallen Hero's dog. A Fallen Hero that loved Tank so incredibly much. I was just crying reading what he wrote about his dog, and then to find out that he had been killed himself...OMGosh! I am so glad that Tank has you. I can completely understand why wanted to place him with a loving family, such as yourself.

    What an incredible story!

  9. Omgosh... I am stilling here bawling my eyes out. Thank you for posting this. I know I'm a couple days late reading it, but wow what a story. I'm a huge animal lover, as is my husband. We have two boxers and just took in a puppy German Shepherd who was not being treated well at all. The last thing we need is a third dog LOL but we just couldn't let him stay where he was. We felt so bad for him, my husband will deploying come the first of the year and I'm sure our babies will miss him dearly. When I read the letter in the post I couldn't believe it... My husband named our new German Shepherd "Tank". Well anyhow thanks for sharing.

  10. I know I am a little late on reading this, but WOW! What a story! I cried as I was reading it. I am an animal lover, and actually just got off the phone with my sailor telling him how I wanted to adopt an animal from the shelter, this letter makes me want to even more! Thanks for sharing such a wonderful story!